While few of us live lives as exciting or dangerous as that of
Captain Kirk, in our business and personal lives we all face no-win
situations. These could include bosses who are impossible to work for,
companies that are in a hopeless downward spiral, or jobs that are a
terrible fit. The question that confronts us then becomes, "what course
to take?"
There are three broad options: Retreat, wait, or advance.
Retreat
Many of us in the business world, trained
as we are to always be driving hard, are reluctant to withdraw from a
fight. However, as wise general
Sun Tzu once said,
"Therefore,
the art of employing troops is that when the enemy occupies high
ground, do not confront him; with his back resting on hills, do not
oppose him." I was in a job once in which my boss and I didn't see
eye-to-eye. The situation got increasingly negative and it became clear
that it would not improve. And since I could read an org chart, I knew
if there would be a winner, it wouldn't be me. So I chose to "retreat"
by moving to a different position with a better management team, one
that could see and use the value of my skills as well as being on the
same page as me in terms of work style and beliefs. To successfully
retreat, one must accept that some situations are irredeemable and it's a
better use of your time and energy to move on to bigger and better
things.
Wait
Another option, again difficult for those of
us who are used to always working hard to make progress, is to wait for
conditions to change for the better. Take the situation above; another
option I could have opted for was to wait and see if the boss would move
on to other things. It can also work in other situations, such as a
business experiencing tough times, by waiting to see if things turn
around. This can often be a viable approach, but one must be careful. By
not taking a active approach (retreat or advance), you are at the mercy
of events. You must perform due diligence to test the chances of things
working out for the better. It's also critical that you have a backup
plan in case your delaying strategy fails.
Attempt to Advance
If, like Captain Kirk, you
refuse to accept losing a no-win situation, you can put it all on the
line to try and achieve victory. But, by definition, a no-win situation
will take a tremendous amount of blood, sweat, and tears to conquer. You
really need to think through, even if you do win, will it be worth the
cost? And don't forget, there's a high probability you may lose, which
could be devastating. Although Kirk was able to reprogram the Kobayashi
Maru scenario so he would win, as a result he was put on academic
suspension and forced to face a trial for his actions. It was only by
chance that he saved his career; his trial was put off by an attack on a
Federation planet, which started a war in which Kirk redeemed himself.
Fortune may not favor you so well.
So these are your options. Consider the odds, time, effort and
potential payoff, then choose what you think will work best for you. By
doing so intelligently, the better are the chances are you will "live
long and prosper."
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